Valuable Resources and Links

Each of these resources, listed by category, can provide helpful information. However, this doesn't mean I endorse or agree with everything written in them. To browse, click a category on the left to view recommended resources.

Jen Abbas, Gen Ex: Adult Children of Divorce and the Healing of Our Pain (Random House, 2004). Click on for excellent articles and information on adult children of divorce. Evon Flesberg, The Switching Hour (Abingdon Press)

Dr. Archibald D. Hart, Children and Divorce (Dallas: Word, 1989)

Dr. Archibald Hart, Growing Up Divorced—For Adults Who Once Suffered the Trauma of Their Parents’ Divorce (Servant: Ann Arbor, MI, 1994)

Kids Hope,, Gary Sprague President and Founder, PO Box 6020, Woodland Park, CO 80866,1-888-KIDSHOPE [543-7467]

Elizabeth Marquardt, Between Two Worlds—The Inner Lives of Children of Divorce (Three Rivers Press, 2006)

Tom and Beverly Rodgers, Adult Children of Divorced Parents—Making Your Marriage Work (This book is self published. To obtain copies:

Judith Wallerstein, Julia Lewis and Sandra Blakslee, The Unexpected Legacy of Divorce (New York: Hyperion, 2000)

Thomas A. Whiteman, Your Kids and Divorce (Grand Rapids, MI: Revell, 2001, 1992)

Dan Allender, Bold Love (Colorado Springs, CO: Navpress, 1993). Melody Beattie, Codependent No More (New York: Harper & Row, 1987)

Celebrate Recovery, Christian recovery program on how to become free from addictive, compulsive and dysfunctional behaviors

Henry Cloud and John Townsend, Boundaries in Marriage (Grand Rapids, MI: Zondervan, 1999)

James Dobson, Love Must Be Tough (Waco, Tex.: Word, 1983)

Leslie Vernick The Emotionally Destructive Relationship: Seeing It! Stopping IT! Surviving It (Eugene, OR: Harvest House, 2007).

Alcoholics Anonymous, 1-212-870-3400

Cocaine Anonymous, 1-800-347-8998

DivorceCare, PO Box 1739 Wake Forest, NC, 27588-1739, 1-800-489-7788,

Domestic Violence Hotline 1-800-962-2873 (1-800-96-ABUSE)

Gamblers Anonymous, 213-386-8789

David Hazard, When You Can’t Say I Forgive You (Colorado Springs, CO: NavPress, 2000)

Laura Petherbridge, When “I Do” Becomes “I Don’t” – Practical Steps for Healing During Separation and Divorce (David C Cook)

Lewis Smedes, Forgive and Forget—Healing the Hurts We Don’t Deserve (HarperOne, 2007)

Rose Sweet, Healing the Heartbreak of Divorce (Peabody, MA: Hendrickson, 2001)

Tom Whiteman, Bob Burns, The Fresh Start Divorce Recovery Workbook Thomas Nelson, 1992, 1998 1-888-373-7478

Anita Lustrea, Things Women Tell Me (Zondervan, 2010)

John and Staci Eldredge, Captivating (Thomas Nelson)

John Eldredge, Waking the Dead (Thomas Nelson, 2003)

Carol Kent, When I Lay My Isaac Down (Navpress, 2004)

Virelle Kidder, Meet Me At the Well (Moody, 2008)

Georgia Shaffer, Taking Out Your Emotional Trash (Harvest House, 2010)

David Timms, Living the Lord’s Prayer (Bethany House, 2008)

Ron Blue, Master Your Money (Thomas Nelson)

Larry Burkett, Family Financial Workbook (Moody)

Brian Kluth, Experience God as Your Provider (Moody, 2010)

Joseph Warren Kniskern, When the Vow Breaks (Nashville, TN: Broadman and Holman, 1993)

Gary Chapman, Hope for the Separated (Chicago: Moody Press, 1996, 1982)

Tim Clinton, Before a Bad Goodbye (Nashville: Word, 1999)

David Instone-Brewer, Divorce and Remarriage in the Church (IVP, 2003)

Myles Monroe, Single, Married, Separated and Life After Divorce (Tulsa: Vincom, 1991)

Gary Chapman, Hope for the Separated (Chicago: Moody Press, 1996, 1982)

Tim Clinton, Before a Bad Goodbye (Nashville: Word, 1999)

David Instone-Brewer, Divorce and Remarriage in the Church (IVP, 2003)

Myles Monroe, Single, Married, Separated and Life After Divorce (Tulsa: Vincom, 1991)

Mike Haley, 101 Frequently Asked Questions About Homosexuality (Eugene, OR: Harvest House, 2004)

Laurie Hall, An Affair of the Mind (Colorado Springs: Focus on the Family, 1996)

Deb Lasser, Shattered Vows

Dr. Mark Laaser, Healing the Wounds of Sexual Sin (Zondervan)

Love in Action, PO Box 171444, Memphis, TN 38187, 901-751-2468

Marsha Means, Living with Your Husbands Secret Wars (Grand Rapids, MI: Revell, 1999)

New Life Partners,

Harry Schaumberg, False Intimacy – Understanding Sexual Addiction (Colorado Springs, CO: Navpress, 1997).

Anita Worthen and Bob Davies, Someone I Love is Gay—How Family and Friends Can Respond (Downers Grove, IL; InterVarsity Press, 1996)

Stephen Arterburn and Dr. Meg J. Rinck, Avoiding Mr. Wrong (Nashville: Thomas Nelson, 2001)

Lisa Bevere, Kissed the Girls and Made Them Cry—Why Women Lose When We Give In (Nashville: Thomas Nelson, 2002)

Henry Cloud and John Townsend, Safe People (Grand Rapids, MI: Zondervan, 1995)

Rob Eagar, Dating with Pure Passion (Eugene, OR: Harvest House, 2005)

Patti Gordon, Press Play- Taking the Single Life Off Hold (Sisters, OR Multnomah, 2006)

Georgia Shaffer, How NOT to Date a Loser (Harvest House)

Mary S. Whelchel, Common Mistakes Singles Make (Grand Rapids, MI: Revell, 1999)

Brenda Armstrong, Financial Relief for Single Parents (Chicago, IL: Moody Publishers, 2007)

Robert Barnes, Single Parenting (Wheaton, IL: Living Books, 1992)

Elsa Kok Colopy, The Single Mom’s Guide to Finding Joy in the Chaos (Grand Rapids, MI; Revell, 2006) For mom’s with young children

Gary Richmond, Successful Single Parenting (Eugene, OR: Harvest House, 1990)

Diane Strack, New Start for Single Moms (Nashville: Thomas Nelson, 2007)

Gary Chapman, Things I Wish I’d Known Before We Got Married (Moody, 2010)

Terri Clark, Tying The Family Knot (Nashville: Broadman and Holman, 2004)

Ron Deal and Laura Petherbridge, The Smart Stepmom (Bethany House, 2009)

Ron Deal, The Smart Stepfamily (Grand Rapids, MI: Bethany House, 2002)

Maxine Marsolini, Raising Children in Blended Families—Helpful Insights, Expert Opinions and True Stories (Kregal, 2006)